Friday, December 4, 2015

Things I Find Beautiful

I almost didn't watch this video my friend Stephanie shared today, but I'm still (STILL! Arg.) sick on the couch and kinda miserable and in need of distraction, so I did.

I expected it to just be a few moments of feel-good-fluff, but in the end it was more bittersweet than that - and now my eyes are all leaky, dangit.

Here, take a look:


This reminds me of how it feels to be a cosplay photographer, although since these students didn't set out to have their photos taken, it's really a more extreme - and more illuminating - look at how we take compliments.

For the most part it IS wonderful and sweet, but as the vid shows, far too often a spontaneous compliment will be met with suspicion, disbelief, and even out-right anger. (I actually started to fear for Shea at 1:40.)



I suppose we could talk about our society's impossible beauty standards, and how it's the inside that counts, anyway. We could say that our self-worth shouldn't be based on others' opinions, and that the "selfie epidemic" only reinforces a self-destructive form of narcissism. We can analyze and diagnose and point fingers - but really, who is that helping?

Maybe we should just remind each other we're beautiful.

In fact, while I'm at it, I want to say something. If it's weird just blame the cold meds:

You have certain abilities and passions and fabulous little quirks that no one else has. You have a wholly original perspective on the world. You can do and see and say things in ways that no one else on this planet ever can, and that makes you frickin' incredible. So please don't rob the world of you. Don't hide those things that make you different. Show the people around you how to be beautiful. Show them it's ok. 

And then show them Stargate:Atlantis, 'cuz that is some seriously underrated sci-fi goodness, right there.


Now I'm off to go cuddle with my Vicks vaporizer. Y'all be good to yourselves.

Thursday, December 3, 2015

MegaCon Fan Days Pt 2: Hobbits and Dwarves and Cosplay, Oh My!


Let's wrap up MegaCon's Fan Days with some costume contest winners:

(Lady Sauron!)

And a big Disney group:

I'm especially impressed with the two characters from Treasure Planet. See them?
That's Doctor Doppeler beside Belle, and Captain Amelia is behind him.

Here's a reference shot, since it's probably been a while:



You've also gotta love the matching Gastons. Ha!

On Saturday John and I attended John Rhys-Davies' panel, who stepped out in a dapper three-piece suit and proceeded to dispense life advice to the audience in that oh-so-elegant voice of his: